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Is my girlfriend Cheating on me… More?

Okay… big story…

Have been dating my girl for 3 years… i have had more than enough chances given to me over the course of 3 years… i cheated physically one time and that was one week into this and kissed someone that is it… we are eachothers first for everything… sex, foreplay etc… We have always been the type that bicker at eachother and do the fake breakup for 6 hours at a time and it got old… about 4 months ago her sister who was living with her (i am 19 in college and shes 18 in highschool) her sister decided to move out of the house (because of family issues) to her biological mothers home and then got an apartment of her own. After a while my girlfriend decided to go see her sister 3 hours away which was fine with me at the time and nothing suspicious was going on. Well after the first few times she met her sisters friends and got aquanted with males and females and after one weekend came home with a few guys phone numbers in her phone which really did not bother me at first because shes 18 and is allowed to have friends. Well over the course of the 4 months she has liked this guy (names jon) and she has hid him from me. its basically she sees me for 5 days of the week and then 2 days of the weekend she spends with her sister and this guy. And i have heard multiple times that she likes this guy and after a big fight she even came out and admitted it that she liked him. So after that fight we broke up for 3 weeks. After 3 weeks she begged and begged and cried and screamed for me to come back so i decided to give her a second chance. 1 week later she went back to her sisters (which was hard to let me let her go but i did) and on her way back home that sunday i was talking to a friend from around the same area. And come to find out 2 days into our 3 week break up. She got drunk (she has never ever drank without me around) and made out with him a few times over the course of the evening. She had never told me about it and i confronted her and she blocked all communications with the guy, her sister her friends, me and etc for the whole night… next day i told her i can forgive her because we technically were not dating… yes it hurts… but in the same case she was single… (but she had no idea how long this breakup was going to last as our other ones last 1-2 days at a time). So 3 weeks without going up there she decides to go up there for this thanksgiving break (leaving the evening of thanksgiving and to come back either this sunday or monday)… She texted me and promised and said there will be no alone time with him, no drinking, nothing suspicious etc etc… i find out the minute she gets to the town she goes to his apartment to hangout with him (the whole point to the trip was to see her grandparents and father), over the course of the night i texted her multiple times receiving little to no communication… i then sent part of a song that we always liked that talks about getting married and i said in the text… what would yo usay if i asked you… and she said i would say yes. That was thursday night and that is the last mean of communication i have had from her… Thursday night she stayed over night at her grandparents house… she spent all of friday with this guy she ended up staying with him (at his parents house) overnight (not sleeping together that i know of ) … this girl is way to insecure to let any guy get in her pants… but i guess if i was positive i wouldnt be asking for anyones advice?… so all of yesterday and today i have not recieved any communication from her… she spent all day with him and all night again and as of 12:30 tonight when i last talked to someone who knows them they were playing pool in the downstairs of his apartment… I am no perfect boyfriend… but any tips would be nice… All the signs show she is cheating… but after 3 years and knowing how insecure she is about her body and such (she is 103 lbs and was anorexic before i met her). It would be very hard for anyone to be able to get in her pants… but like i said i dont know anymore… what should i do? alot of people will say kick her to the curb but i am one to fight for something and im not sure if its worth fighting over anymore.. .but i do love her… do i go as far to set my foot down and say either you can choose to be my girlfriend and not hangout with him ever again or do i just let her go?… any advice would be great…
Matt

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